HOE NOOOOO

wow! I'm back AGAIN for the SECOND time today! =D Twitter has given me another topic of discussion.

heeeerrrreeeee we go:

HOES!

What makes someone a hoe, stragg, pop, jump, etc.?

Everyone has their own definition of what makes you a hoe.

To some, a hoe is someone who has slept with a lot of different people. If thats the case, than how many is too many? is 3 too many? 7? 10?

Others think that its the time inbetween meeting and actually having relations. If this is so, then how soon is too soon? 3 weeks? a month? 5 months?

Or if a hoe is only a hoe because of what she or he did? Does sucking dxck make you a hoe? Sleeping with another person's boyfriend or girlfriend? Having sex with friends that are in the same circle? Taking risque photo's of yourself?

And lets not forget the age old, double standard! How men can get away with certain behaviors while women are looked down upon if they ever even THOUGHT about it.

Well these questions and opinions have been around long before I have and will continue to grow and change with time. Everyone has his or her's dos and don'ts.

Personally, I am a sexual person. To be blunt, I LIKE SEX. I enjoy it. I like actual intercoarse. I enjoy giving as well as recieveing oral pleasures aka HEAD. I've had sex in public. I've had a one night stand. I've had sex with a guy that was not my boyfriend. I've had sex with a guy who was someone else's boyfriend. I'm curious about sex. I want to eventually try new things with my partner. But I too have the Dos and Don'ts rules.

I feel that it is a matter of a person's comfortablity with themselves as well as with others. Its also a respect thing; both self as well as for others. Granted, some of the things I have done were not lady-like and may be seen as whore-ish to some. However I know my own limitations and I feel that the mistakes I have made, I learned from. I'm young and still have a lot of growing up to do. I do not claim to know it all and I'm not trying to seem as though I do. However I do feel that when labels are distributed, they should be under more defined guidelines as to what makes a person fit into that label. If everyone has a different defination, who is to say what a hoe truly is? The lines are blurred.

We are so quick to point out the flaws in others when in some cases, we know we wish we could do what it is that that person does. If I were a guy, everything that I've done would be seen as cool. But because I have a vagina, some people would say I have hoe-ish tendancies (a friend actually told me that I have hoe-ish tendancies before =\)

Not to say that I haven't called or labeled others under this term. I have. Everyone has. Its human nature. Noone is capable of not passing judgment onto others. We judge all the time. However, after the initial judgmnet, we should stop to really think about why the person is the way they are. Or if we would do it, too, but for whatever reason, can't.

I'm not naive either. I'm aware that there are somethings that are just not acceptable in society and as much as I like to say that I do not care what others think or feel, I know tha I have to. Because if a person of importance was to come across a sex tape of me back in college (all hypothetical...no tapes here) my chances of getting a job with that company r slim to none. Its all an image. In a perfect world, it would not matter but unfortunatly, it does.

But the question still remains, what is a hoe? Leave comments and opinions. I'd like to know.

Tats all for now. twitter me baby =) (@Only_Noniie)


~Noelle