Fed Up

Okay. Unless you have been living under a rock, you have heard about the Chris Brown and Rhianna incedent. If you have not, to put it simply, Chris whooped Rhianna's ass! Google the pictures of her face after what happened if you want to see for yourself, but take my word for it, he did damage!



No one knows what happened in that car with the two of them and what stated the fight. Some people say its because he cheated and others believe that had broken up already. I even heard a story about her giving Chris an STD from sleeping with Jay Z. Whatever actually happened, only chris and Rhianna know for sure. However what has me steamed are the reactions to what happened. ESpecially coming from women.



Turns out Chris has five years of probation after pleading guilty to the crime. He should feel BLESSED! He got a slap on the wrist! But some how people feel like thats not fair! If its not fair, its only because its such a light sentencing!



Let me make this one point very clear: I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR A MAN THAT THINKS HE IS RIGHT FOR HITTING A WOMAN. Unless she is on her Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction shxt, WALK THE FUCK AWAY! If you have to keep walking, then keep walking. If she is not a threat to your life or someone else's that you love and care about, you have no right to beat her the way Chris Brown beat Rhianna. NONE!



Men are built to beat ass. This is a scientific fact! So what if she is slapping you or putting her hands in your face or calling you names? Are you a little kid? Are you seriously going to beat her up because she called you a pussy and dared you to hit her? GROW UP! That shit is so first grade! And do NOT call it a reflex because what he did was NOT a reflex. A reflex is a slap or a shake. Not continuos blows to the face and then BITING HER (allegidly)! Thats more than a reflex. And even still, hitting her because of a reflex I still find unacceptable.

I feel really sorry for anyone who believes its okay for a man to hit a woman, whether you are a male or female. Especially if you are a woman. If you are a woman and u think its okay for a guy to hit another woman, it just shows me how highly you think of yourself. And a lot of women will be quick to say "she deserved it" but if it happened to them, all hell would break loose! If you feel its ok for him to hit another woman, then you obviously feel its okay of him to hit you.

Im not saying the women should beat on men and get away with it. Honestly people should just keep their hands to themselves and call it quits when all you do is argue and fight and never get along. But of coarse not everyone is as mature. However if you want to play the role as an adult, be one and be the bigger person and simply say "I'm done."

I'm really upset about this topic! I'm so disappointed and disgusted with people in my own family that sit there and truly believe its okay. But if I was to ever hit a man and he hit me back, I bet they'd all be quick to murder him. And at that point I'd honestly say well you thought it was ok for others to be hit but now that its me, he's wrong? Stick by your word then! DO NOT come rescue me! Because I DESERVED it! Am I right? And if it happened to them, I wouldn't want to hear any tears or plees for sympathy because "you must have done something to provoke it" and "sometimes bitches just need to get slapped".

I've lost a lot of respect for a lot of people when they can truly believe that treating someone that way is ok. Saying stupid things like "shit happenes". I just hope to God if I have a son, I can teach him how to be a real man and how to respect himself and others. And if i have a daughter that she too will respect herself and others. As for the people that have aready been lost to the ignorance i really feel sorry for you. I know damn well my mother raised me to have more self respect than to tolerate anyone doing that to me or for me to ever do it to anyone else.