HOE NOOOOO

wow! I'm back AGAIN for the SECOND time today! =D Twitter has given me another topic of discussion.

heeeerrrreeeee we go:

HOES!

What makes someone a hoe, stragg, pop, jump, etc.?

Everyone has their own definition of what makes you a hoe.

To some, a hoe is someone who has slept with a lot of different people. If thats the case, than how many is too many? is 3 too many? 7? 10?

Others think that its the time inbetween meeting and actually having relations. If this is so, then how soon is too soon? 3 weeks? a month? 5 months?

Or if a hoe is only a hoe because of what she or he did? Does sucking dxck make you a hoe? Sleeping with another person's boyfriend or girlfriend? Having sex with friends that are in the same circle? Taking risque photo's of yourself?

And lets not forget the age old, double standard! How men can get away with certain behaviors while women are looked down upon if they ever even THOUGHT about it.

Well these questions and opinions have been around long before I have and will continue to grow and change with time. Everyone has his or her's dos and don'ts.

Personally, I am a sexual person. To be blunt, I LIKE SEX. I enjoy it. I like actual intercoarse. I enjoy giving as well as recieveing oral pleasures aka HEAD. I've had sex in public. I've had a one night stand. I've had sex with a guy that was not my boyfriend. I've had sex with a guy who was someone else's boyfriend. I'm curious about sex. I want to eventually try new things with my partner. But I too have the Dos and Don'ts rules.

I feel that it is a matter of a person's comfortablity with themselves as well as with others. Its also a respect thing; both self as well as for others. Granted, some of the things I have done were not lady-like and may be seen as whore-ish to some. However I know my own limitations and I feel that the mistakes I have made, I learned from. I'm young and still have a lot of growing up to do. I do not claim to know it all and I'm not trying to seem as though I do. However I do feel that when labels are distributed, they should be under more defined guidelines as to what makes a person fit into that label. If everyone has a different defination, who is to say what a hoe truly is? The lines are blurred.

We are so quick to point out the flaws in others when in some cases, we know we wish we could do what it is that that person does. If I were a guy, everything that I've done would be seen as cool. But because I have a vagina, some people would say I have hoe-ish tendancies (a friend actually told me that I have hoe-ish tendancies before =\)

Not to say that I haven't called or labeled others under this term. I have. Everyone has. Its human nature. Noone is capable of not passing judgment onto others. We judge all the time. However, after the initial judgmnet, we should stop to really think about why the person is the way they are. Or if we would do it, too, but for whatever reason, can't.

I'm not naive either. I'm aware that there are somethings that are just not acceptable in society and as much as I like to say that I do not care what others think or feel, I know tha I have to. Because if a person of importance was to come across a sex tape of me back in college (all hypothetical...no tapes here) my chances of getting a job with that company r slim to none. Its all an image. In a perfect world, it would not matter but unfortunatly, it does.

But the question still remains, what is a hoe? Leave comments and opinions. I'd like to know.

Tats all for now. twitter me baby =) (@Only_Noniie)


~Noelle

Phony Noniie ????

i'm back.
yess yess YESSSS!

I'm sorry I have been neglectful =\ But I always com back, don't I????

The 1st week of my sophomore year is complete! =D *happy dance* This only means that it is officially time to work! I really fxcked up my freshman year so I have A LOT of work to do to resurrect my GPA.

Anywhooo I will begin this post with a recap of my 1st week at school:

I did not get the housing assignment i was hoping for. Instead I am back in my old dormatory. However I will not complain because many people are stuck without housing period. So for this, I am thankful. Besides, my friends have off campus apartments that I am frequently at so I look at my room in the dorm as a vacation spot.
The first party of the year was on Tuesday night. Yes a Tuesday. I know it wasnt such a good idea but of coarse I was in attendance. And I'm glad that I was. I got to meet Terrance J from 106 & Park and he is a very cool guy. Most people think he is corny but hes actually funny and down to earth. I won't get into much detail online about it, however my friends and I can now say we are cool with people in the buisness. BUT FOR THE RECORD THERE WAS NO GROUPIE ACTIVITY!!!!!! NO SEX OR LIQOUR OR NUDITY OR ANYTHING OF THAT NATURE!

As for the new guys on campus. . . . .
I haven't gotten one. Typical. As usual, anyone I had my eye on, was already claimed by a friend *shrug* =\ Welcome to my life. But I guess this only allows me to concetrate more on my school work, right?

Now on to th topic of this post>>>>>

Phony Noniie? This is the question that I am proposing.
It all started when I was showing pictures to my friend, Rell. He spotted a picture of me with a female friend and asked me if it was the same girl that I had once told him was a whore. I laughed and said yes. He told me that I was being phony. I explained that I don't see it as being phony. She and I get along most times. I don't hate the girl. There are times when I see myself in situations that reind me of the movie Mean Girls. But in a group of girls I find this to be common. Frenemies is the term. You deal with them but there are some times that just make you want to smack them. But I can say that I've never done anything to her that harmed her in anyway. Okay yes I said she's a whore. But she can have whorish moments, as do I and a lot of girls. We never say things behind eachother's backs that we havent said to eachother's faces. Rell still insists that I'm being a phony, where as I see it as being socially aware.

So my question to you, readers, is this: Am I being phony for hanging out with her?

Leave comments and let me know what you think about the situation and how you would handle it. I honestly feel like I am a genuine person and phony is not a synonym with my name. But if you see different, let me know.

Anywhoooo thats all for now. . . . .find me daily on twitter (@Only_Noniie)

~Noelle

Every Boy

So tonight I had some fun with the girlies. We decided to remix Every Girl by Young Money...I think it came out pretty well...here it goes


wayne-- @SAMcharitar
drake-- @TopNotch_Noniie (myself)
jae millz/gudda gudda-- @aintTHATaBEE
mack maine-- @iamstephluvah


I want a tall dark strong buff man
to Open up my legs then filet minon my pussy
he can go in, straight ham my pussy
cuz I let him in, he don’t own my pussy
imma throw it back & buss it open like I’m sposed to
nxgga I’m a bad bitch
now come here let me show u
u gon’ be a juice fiend
them boys they call me juicy
ell em keep they tongue on my *GASP* theyd get to kno me
HA!
But they cant call me hoochie
I wont fxck the whole group
Nxgga I’m no groupie
My sex game the SWEET*est
My head, that’s a secret
I promise
I am one of mary Louis finest
BUT ANYWAY
I love me some chocolate
& I don’t need me no milk boy
You alone is just fine yes
Imma give u an assignment
I let u (eat me out, I throw it back, eat me out)
hook:
cuz he like her and he like her too, he like her, and he like her too
cuz he like her and he like her too, he like her, and he like her too
cuz we know that u fxcked every grl in the world, cuz u jus tryna fxck every grl in the world, yeah we kno that u fxcked every grl in the world, yeah u jus tryna fxck every grl in the world
I be bouncing up and down,
he slappin on my ass ‘n,
nibbling up on the kitty
giggling and laughin
all my shorties care about is partyin and fashion
thinkin u can hit it baby but unfortunately u r wroooong
tmla these grls r tiiimeless
young money bout hear to this ish and try to siiign us
the type a shorty u need, boy it aint hard to fiiind us
badder than the chick u got, boo lets b hoooonest
u want me u want me
cuz I got it all baby tell me what u don’t see
tryna live yall cuz my life is beautiful
jus like tboz, boy I aint neva been no silly hoooooe
these niggas bout pussy pussy pussy
buyin alchol aint impressin me at allll
damn
and everytime u think u got a winner
my grls will come around and make a nigga reconsider
hook
niggas say im disrespectful but im buzzed like a bumbleBEE,
trynna lick the honey pot, wishin hopin he could see ...
but i dont wanna fxck everyboy in the world ....
not a model, not a singer. fxck that shxt bxtch imma diva.
aint no high sadiddy(sp?) chick, im in college aint no skeezer,
freaky so if we fxck wanna be on top, eva the diva!!
my role model is MEEEE
these niggas just want BEE
just wait to get the first kiss
i'll give ya ass the business
HAAA!!
me&&my girls god gift like christmas
talk shxt, smooth skin, fye hair, thick ass
nah we aint feeling none'ah ya'll
no need to check my call log
aint wastin time on none'ah ya'll
ya'll be freakin every weekend
trynna get at me, when ya know ya girl is deep in ...
love, &&look you trynna get ya pimpin on
bring that shxt around me&&watch yo ass get shitted on
hook
And nigga I'm Chinky ayye ayye ayye
Columbus Short
Shemar Moore
Chad Michael Murray
Hah
Trey Songz
For free louis bags I'd give Fab all-nighters
In about 4 years, holla at me Diggy Simmons
I don't discriminate, no not at all
Shaq a giant if he tweet me I'll give him some
I exchange twitpics with the retards
And I got #signedtoyoungmoney cause she aree
Chink-izzo
Baby
Cause she areeee Chinkizzoo
Babyyyy

i looove it...leave ya comments and let me know what u think =)

and catch us live on twitter!!!!!!!

Everybody is happy... ????

yes i know....i havent blogged in MONTHS i'm so sorry =\ but i've returned and with a lot on my mind.

for starters the summer is almost over for me =( back to school on the 22nd.

So here it is, how my summer of 2009 went...... *drum roll*

it was all going really well...up until...last night. I saw my crush but didnt get to speak to him b/c some grl kept distracting him. i went to atl to visit my uncle. i hung out with my friends from high school just about every weekend. and i met a boy. yes there is ALWAYS a guy. this time it was all jus for fun. thats what it started off being. then of coarse being me, i actually start to like him. and of coarse, being me and havin my luck, he confesses that he is just wanting fun this summer. understandable. we're young and its the summer.

i felt like he and i hit it off really well. but then friends and outside opinions started to come into the picture. now of coarse when every1 has mutual friends, or knows of eachother, everyone knows what is going on with each pair. however i tried to make it so that he and i understood where we were coming from. but last night it jus got way out of control.

the history behind last night is quite simple. the guy i like says he likes me but thinks one of my other friends' friend is cute. he says he isnt interested. however on twitter, the guys joke and play and make it seem as though he likes her. i try to ignore it and not get upset becuz he is not my boyfriend and he has the right to like whomever he wants to. but my friends are protective of me. they know i like him. so when these jokes r made it is taken seriously and they jump to defend me. i ADORE them for that. i will not apologize for not being able to have a say over what my friends do and do not do. they are their own ppl. however it put a real strain on he and i and i feel like now he is rethinking how he and i should act towards eachother. he's under the impression that i told them to yell at him about something he said on twitter. that was not the case at all. yes i was upset by it but he and i had had a conversation about how i deal with my jealous feelings. he seemed to have understood. maybe the hype of the evening jus made it seem like it was more than it actually was. because ppl were drunk and arguing (heres the funny part: i was home while all this was going on). whatever the case was, it ended with me being the 1 in the dog house.

another issue i've discovered is, groups within groups. we go through it ALL THE TIME! its bound to happen when some ppl are closer than others. however theres a certain way to go about it in my opinion. when we are all together, we r together. when we seperate, it feels as though we r put against eachother. i hate arguing and fights so i remain silent but it does bother me. i try to treat my friends equally. a few inside jokes may come up but most times, i'm willing to share the joke.

so with the mixture of opinions and groups and such, again i find myself in the middle, with some1 upset at me. when i do nothing but try to please every1 and i find that because i care about others, i often over look myself. all to avoid drama.

all i ever did was like some1 and tell my friends how i was feeling but it seems that if i share, its going to become more than it actually is. but keeping things in can't be good for me either. so what do i do? i'm the one with all the answers it seems but i can never find them for myself. so that noelle can be happy. so that noelle can smile. and as much as i say i wont do that anymore, i continue. that is just how i am. a people pleaser.

thats all for now. i promise to write more often. i'll be at school soon so inbetween twtter and studying, i promise to blog. toodles!!! =)

~Noelle